For ages, strong women have sensed their boundless potential ~ yet breaking free from old patterns felt elusive.

We've been led to believe the answers were outside of us—scattered in external solutions, opinions, and advice, keeping us disconnected from our own power...

But this is a new Bold Leadership Era... where your voice, boundaries, and well-being take center stage, unlocking a deeper, more authentic power.

Strong know they have boundless potential ~ yet breaking free from old patterns feels elusive.


We've been led to believe the answers are outside of us—scattered in external solutions, opinions, and advice, keeping us disconnected from our own power...

But this is your new Bold Leadership Era... where your voice, boundaries, and well-being take centre stage ~ unlocking a deeper, more authentic power.

And I have good news for you…

Being fearless is NOT a prerequisite for change.

If you’re ready to get to the ROOT of the issue... Keep reading. 

You're not alone, and there is nothing wrong with you.

You overcommit to avoid disappointing others…

AND ... you're ready to feel empowered to follow your inner compass. 

You have fear of conflict ...

 AND ... you're ready to make the impact you deeply desire.

Setting boundaries feels way too uncomfortable...

AND … you have SO much to offer.

What if you could chose yourself, instead... 

Imagine increased authenticity; expressing your true self without fear of judgment or rejection, leading to more genuine relationships and personal fulfillment.

Imagine life with stronger boundaries; where you establish and maintain clear limits, protecting your time and energy, and reducing stress and burnout.

Imagine enhanced confidence; prioritizing your own needs and making decisions based on what’s right for you, to help you build greater self-assurance and resilience.

Imagine a more balanced life; achieving a healthier work-life relationship by focusing on your own well-being and interests, allowing for more relaxation and joy.

I bet you felt that tight knot in your stomach start to loosen, and you began to breathe easier as you read that... am i right? 








Imagine a more balanced life; achieving a healthier work-life relationship by focusing on your own well-being and interests, allowing for more ease and joy.

Imagine enhanced confidence; prioritizing your own needs and making decisions based on what’s right for you, to help you build greater self-assurance and resilience.

Imagine life with stronger boundaries; where you establish and maintain clear limits, protecting your time and energy, and reducing stress and burnout.

Imagine increased authenticity; expressing your true self without fear of judgment or rejection, leading to more genuine relationships and personal fulfillment.

What if you could chose yourself, instead... 

I bet you felt that tight knot in your stomach start to loosen, and you began to breathe easier as you read that... am i right? 








REAL TALK, My Friend... 

This full expression of yourself is your birthright, and it lives in the cells of your body ~ not in anyone else's advice. 

Transforming your people-pleasing behavior is well within your reach, and you can learn to fully embody this practice.

Choosing yourself is intentional. 




Here's what the community is saying...

REAL TALK, My Friend...

This full expression of yourself is your birthright, and it lives in the cells of your body ~ not in anyone else's advice. 

Transforming your people-pleasing behavior is well within your reach, and you can learn to fully embody this practice.

Choosing yourself is intentional. 



You really CAN feel empowered to choose yourself for the highest good.

You have everything you need inside of you to interrupt and redirect the people-pleasing pattern.

Lasting change is possible...

There IS a way to interrupt your people pleasing behavior.

Your leadership development journey doesn’t have to be characterized by shame…

…because people-pleasing isn’t a character flaw (it’s not even something you consciously do!)

You Can: 

Set clear boundaries and still be respected and valued.

Prioritize your needs without feeling guilty or selfish.

Confidently say no, and still maintain strong relationships.

Let go of seeking approval and trust your own judgment.

…YOU CAN lead with integrity while honoring your values... YOU CAN reclaim your time and energy and focus on what really matters to you. 

You really CAN feel empowered to choose yourself for the highest good.

AND...

You have everything you need inside of you to interrupt and redirect the people-pleasing pattern.

Lasting change is possible...

There IS a way to interrupt your people pleasing behavior.

Your leadership development journey doesn’t have to be characterized by shame…

…because people-pleasing isn’t a character flaw (it’s not even something you consciously do!)

You Can: 

Set clear boundaries and still be respected and valued.

Prioritize your needs without feeling guilty or selfish.

Confidently say no, and still maintain strong relationships.

Let go of seeking approval and trust your own judgment.

…YOU CAN lead with integrity while honoring your values... YOU CAN reclaim your time and energy and focus on what really matters to you. 

What’s ACTUALLY happening in your body when you people please – so you get rid of the “I should have figured this out by now” guilt – and understand that it’s not your fault.

Why your people pleasing reflex results in a shame spiral – so you know how to stop this vicious cycle.

3 practical ways you can interrupt your people pleasing response in the moment it happens – so you can say what you WANT to say and feel safe advocating for yourself.

Real-time exercises to practice interrupting your people pleasing habit – so you can start feeling grounded in yourself NOW.

Inquiry into what’s possible for you when you no longer people please – so you can start living into the woman you’ve always wanted to be. 

“Boundary Alchemist” 
as deemed by clients

74,000+
Audience Members

22 Years
Coaching Experience

you'll be in excellent company with others who get it.

With over 74,000 Truth Speakers in my community...

For the woman who’s ready to stop prioritizing others and start focusing on her own goals and well-being...

In this 50-minute on-demand training, you’ll learn…

All this for just: $17

GET PEOPLE PLEASING INTERRUPTED FOR JUST $17

Get both the on demand video + private podcast recording.

What’s ACTUALLY happening in your body when you people please – so you get rid of the “I should have figured this out by now” guilt – and understand that it’s not your fault.

Why your people pleasing reflex results in a shame spiral – so you know how to stop this vicious cycle.

3 practical ways you can interrupt your people pleasing response in the moment it happens – so you can say what you WANT to say and feel safe advocating for yourself.

Real-time exercise to practice interrupting your people pleasing habit – so you can start feeling grounded in yourself NOW.

Inquiry into what’s possible for you when you no longer people please – so you can start living into the woman you’ve always wanted to be. 

“Boundary Alchemist” 
as deemed by clients

74,000+
Audience Members

22 Years
Coaching Experience

you'll be in excellent company with others who get it.

With over 74,000 Truth Speakers in my community...

For the woman who’s ready to stop prioritizing others and start focusing on her own goals and well-being…

In this 50-minute on-demand training, you’ll learn…

All this for just $17

GET PEOPLE PLEASING INTERRUPTED FOR JUST $17

Get instant, lifetime access – both the video + private podcast recording.

"Working with Elise, I was able to let go of some of my fears around perfection or looking silly, and sink into what it meant to identify myself, my desires, and my goals. Elise helped shift my perspective from being a passive character in my own life, to a much more active one."

- Nikki

"Before working with Elise, something in my body or subconscious was holding me back - literally. My throat would often feel like it was closing in or blocked when I was talking. I had a call with Elise that was so transformational, it raised my awareness of my body wisdom and love for my whole self."

- Stephanie

Here's the deal...

People pleasing is not a mindset issue. People pleasing is a stress response that is deeply rooted in your body. 

You have to heal people pleasing at its ROOT so you can finally feel the expansive freedom you so deeply want.

This is the only way lasting change can be made.

YOU CAN’T THINK YOUR WAY OUT OF PEOPLE PLEASING.

"Working with Elise, I was able to let go of some of my fears around perfection or looking silly, and sink into what it meant to identify myself, my desires, and my goals. Elise helped shift my perspective from being a passive character in my own life, to a much more active one."

- Nikki

"Before working with Elise, something in my body or subconscious was holding me back - literally. My throat would often feel like it was closing in or blocked when I was talking. I had a call with Elise that was so transformational, it raised my awareness of my body wisdom and love for my whole self."

- Stephanie

Real Talk?

When culture thrives on women doubting their own self-worth, the most revolutionary thing you can do is reclaim your power. 

The girls that were once conditioned to believe they aren’t worthy, are now the women who are healing generational traumas. 

They’re discovering REAL freedom in how to trust their intuition. 

They are no longer self-abandoning… instead they are tapping into the fierce powerhouse they KNOW lives inside of them. 

People pleasing is not a mindset issue. People pleasing is a stress response that is deeply rooted in your body. 

You have to heal people pleasing at its ROOT so you can finally feel the expansive freedom you so deeply want.

This is the only way lasting change can be made.

Because the truth is: YOU CAN’T THINK YOUR WAY OUT OF PEOPLE PLEASING.

"I feel much more confident entering into potentially uncomfortable conversations, knowing I can hold space not just for myself but for those in my charge as well!"

- Kaeli

"As an entrepreneur this has been life changing! It has allowed me to refine my skills in listening and speaking from a place of personal truth, power and authenticity"

- ERICA

"I feel much more confident entering into potentially uncomfortable conversations, knowing I can hold space not just for myself but for those in my charge as well!"

- Kaeli

"As an entrepreneur this has been life changing! It has allowed me to refine my skills in listening and speaking from a place of personal truth, power and authenticity"

- ERICA

For the woman ready to take back her sovereignty and learn to be unapologetic about who she really is...

Imagine feeling like YOU are the one in the driver's seat of your life.

Imagine feeling like you are more than capable of handling whatever comes your way.

Imagine feeling free to be exactly who you are.

No more apologizing for just standing on this earth.

Hey!

I'm Elise.

If you're ready to level up your leadership and communication – I’m your gal. 

I needed this training at one point in my life and wish I had it. 

I was painfully shy and bullied for taking up space and existing in a larger body (and still am!). 

My nervous system was often stuck in fight or flight (sound familiar?).

I began people-pleasing to secure attachments with others, to avoid feeling lonely. I felt shame for having any opinion other than the words of others.

I understand that "Say what you mean to say" isn't as easy as it sounds... 

As a lifelong student of embodied truth, I’m here to guide you through the process of translating your body’s wisdom into intentional action and confident communication… 

…So you can feel 100% safe and seen when you use your voice.

I no longer apologize for simply existing.

Join me?

Hey!

I'm Elise.

If you're ready to level up your leadership and communication – I’m your gal. 

I needed this training at one point in my life and wish I had it. 

I was painfully shy and bullied for taking up space and existing in a larger body (and still am!). 

My nervous system was often stuck in fight or flight (sound familiar?).

I began people-pleasing to secure attachments with others, to avoid feeling lonely. I felt shame for having any opinion other than the words of others.

I understand that "Say what you mean to say" isn't as easy as it sounds... 

As a lifelong student of embodied truth, and accredited nervous system specialist and coach, I’m here to guide you through the process of translating your body’s wisdom into intentional action and confident communication… 

…So you can feel 100% safe and seen when you use your voice.

I no longer apologize for simply existing.

Join me?

"Will this work for me?"

I have great news for you!!! You have a body, which contains a nervous system (your brain, spinal cord, nerves). This means the body-based work we cover in this class is relevant to you, and can bring you the kind of understanding you’ll need to make lasting change. 

Yes, you get forever access to this recorded class.

"How long is this class?"

This is a 50-minute class that you can re-watch (or listen to podcast style) anytime you’d like a refresher. So basically one episode of Love is Blind, and you’re good.

"Is this that woo-woo stuff or more mindset work? I've tried all of that before."

Nope – this is literal science. It’s kind of like: gravity exists even if we don’t believe in it, right? Same here. You have a nervous system and it does real stuff in your body – whether you believe in it or not. Whether you are woo-inclined or woo-averse is irrelevant when you work with your nervous system. 

"What if I decide this class isn't for me?"

Due to the digital nature of this product, we don't offer refunds at this time. So all sales are final. 

With that said, if you have any issues or questions at all, my team is just an email away! Reach out to support@elisebesler.com

Ready?

This is about self-reclamation.

LET'S DO THIS

Get the video recording and private podcast link for just $17

Ready?

This is about self-reclamation.

LET'S DO THIS

Get the video recording and private podcast link for just $17